Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Single MoM

I never in a million years would have guessed that I would be raising triplets on my own. I cannot fix my marriage. I cannot fix my husband. I will have to muster up the strength to continue to pray for him and his spirit as he crushes my heart and dreams. The divorce papers are drafted and awaiting his signature. This is a nightmare. The only things keeping me sane are God, 3 little miracles from God, and my family.

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  1. I am praying for you and your family.

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  2. thinking of you during this difficult time.

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  3. I'm so very sorry. I know what the failure of a marriage feels like. I didn't have children with my ex so I know you are experiencing something totally different, but I understand the heartache. You have your children and your family and God, you will get through this. Sending you strength and courage to face what's next.

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  4. Sweetest Rachel,

    My heart hurts for you in reading this post. I had prayed for you when I read your post long ago, as I KNOW the additional stress fertility issues and finally bringing home a baby bring. Trust me, there are many of us who have braved some treacherous relationship waters. If anyone tells you they have the "perfect" marriage, they are not telling the truth. I pray that LIFE is gentle on you moving forward and that your future is bright and filled with loads of love and support from family and friends. I pray that you and Nick can reach common ground and find a way to co-parent and raise these 3 beautiful miracles. I am sure this may take some time, as it took my parents years post divorce to become friends again, as there was so much pain. BUT, eventually, they were find friendship and for our sake had a nice, meaningful relationship through us.

    Hold tight to your convictions Mama! Raise these babies in "HIS" image and stand strong in your FAITH, for without that we have nothing. Sending you HUGE HUGS and lifting you in prayer.

    xxx
    Andrea
    ps you are not the only single mama out there....another of my bloggie friends has also endured the same. She is taking it day by day, asking GOD for guidance and basking in the miracle that GOD gave to her just one year ago.

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